The holidays are upon us and there are parties to attend! “I need a new dress” you think to yourself. But, as you plan your shopping trip, you begin to hear a voice in your head. A voice calling you to the back of your closet. The voice of – IT. It’s been there for years, or maybe just a few days.

Begging to be worn again OR – put out of its misery.

The holidays can always be a little rough and they are upon us with their parties to attend. “I need a new dress,” you might think to yourself. So you plan your shopping trip. Need to go here to get this thing. Run to there to do that thing. In the midst of it all, you begin to hear a voice in your head. A voice calling you back home and to your closet.

The voice of...IT. It’s been there for years or perhaps only for a few days. Perhaps you bought it yourself, wore it to that special event, only to realize later its true nature. Perhaps it was foisted upon you by a “dear friend” or sorority sister in whose wedding you participated. Either way, it’s calling to you now. This is the dress that is begging to be worn again. Or put out of its misery.

Yes, your UGLY DRESS wants to DIE! And to fulfill that Death Wish, the kind ladies at SHE are here to help.

The SHE Party proudly presents to you...
Shred the Dress: Holiday Edition

Wear your ugly dress, holiday fashioned or not, to SHE on December 16th and a group of highly skilled, knife-wielding tops will cut it to shreds. As an added bonus, for the Holiday Edition ONLY, we are expanding the definition of “Ugly Dress” to include “Ugly Holiday Sweaters” as well.

This month there will be no social and the party starts when the doors open at 8pm in the Annex and in the Raw Space and the party will come to a close at 1am.

We welcome the women of the CSPC regardless of the gender marker on their photo identification card.*

SHE features:

• A casual and comfortable atmosphere
• Areas for socializing and cuddling
• Racks, cages, and other gear for BDSM play
• Sex rooms for privacy--but feel free to enjoy yourself anywhere in the Annex or RAW Space!
• Moderate sound volume
• Fetish-wear friendly, but not required. Come as you are, or dress up--your choice!
• Exclusive use of the RAW Space
• A plentiful spread of veggies, fruit, cheeses, and other snacks--bring some food to share if you wish!

Who can attend?

• Open to all women. Government issued female ID is NOT required.
• Open to CSPC members and their invited guests
• 18 and over. Proof of age is required for guests.

Open Play Party 8 pm to 1 am

Cost: $20 ($15 FOR MEMBERS WHO ARRIVE AND PAY BEFORE 9PM; Includes entry into The RAW Side of SHE and the Luv Shack)

* For more information, please visit http://sheparty.org/faq or send an e-mail to she@sexpositiveculture.org.

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SHE Attendance Policy

This party is for all women.
By entering this party, you agree that you identify as a woman.
We reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you for clarification if there is a question with regard to your gender presentation.
We also reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you to leave, if we feel that you do not meet our attendance criteria, or if your presence is disruptive to the event.

Join us on November 18 for our most popular event!

Come and Indulge in our Decadent Delights!

date:        Friday, November 18, 2011

time:              08:00 PM to 02:00 AM

location:         CSPC Annex & Raw Space

The one rule of the Food Orgy - You Can't Feed Yourself.

Imagine a succulent, sensuous buffet of delicacies awaiting to tantalize your senses, all so very tempting. Yet you cannot put a single one in your mouth. What are you to do?

·         You can feed your date, and have her feed you.

·         You could slip into a servile frame of mind and begin feeding every willing Domme in attendance.

·         You could invite a willing submissive to sit at your feet and tantalize her with tidbits.

·         You might start a poly nosh circle, feeding each other in threes and fours and more!

How you get fed, and who you feed, is entirely up to you. And as a bonus--she might even let you lick her fingers clean!

When you've had your fill of culinary delights, the Annex features lots of soft furniture, plenty of places to cuddle and socialize, some equipment for bdsm play and plenty of space for bondage and suspension.

The RAW space (open at 9) is an edgier space with lots of equipment and very little furniture, perfect for rougher, wilder scenes.

We welcome all women, regardless of the gender marker on their photo identification card.*

As they say in New Orleans: “Laissez les bon temps rouler!”

This month SHE salutes one of the biggest, wildest, longest, and sexiest parties in North America--Mardi Gras! Break out your purples, your greens, and your golds, and show us how fabulous you can be! Or dress casually, ready to bear bosoms for beads! We will also have nyotaimori--food presented on a lovely, naked woman--Mardi Gras style! An authentic queen cake, with a decadent cream cheese filling, will be there, and whoever finds the trinket in their slice will be declared Queen For The Night! Come ready to party, come ready to play, come bring your beb*, and come join our motley krewe for a festive night!

*That’s “sweetheart” for you non-Cajuns!

PLUS: We are having a clothing exchange during our social! Comb your closets, pull out those outfits that you don’t wear anymore, and bring them to us--then take whatever clothing items you want home! Unclaimed items will be donated to Noel House, a homeless shelter for all women. Look fabulous for free and know that you’re also helping a good cause!

Friday, March 18 at the CSPC Annex & RAW Space

We welcome the women of the CSPC regardless of the gender marker on their photo identification card.*

SHE features:

• A casual and comfortable atmosphere
• Areas for socializing and cuddling
• Racks, cages, and other gear for BDSM play
• Sex rooms for privacy--but feel free to enjoy yourself anywhere in the Annex or RAW Space!
• Moderate sound volume
• Fetish-wear friendly, but not required. Come as you are, or dress up--your choice!
• Exclusive use of the RAW Space
• A plentiful spread of veggies, fruit, cheeses, and other snacks--bring some food to share if you wish!

Who can attend?

• Open to all women. Government issued female ID is NOT required.
• Open to CSPC members and their invited guests
• 18 and over. Proof of age is required for guests.

Free Social from 8 pm-9 pm

Open Play Party 9 pm to 2 am

Cost: $20 ($15 FOR MEMBERS WHO ARRIVE AND PAY BEFORE 10PM; Includes entry into The RAW Side of SHE and the Luv Shack)

* For more information, please visit http://sheparty.org/faq or send an e-mail to she@sexpositiveculture.org.

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SHE Attendance Policy

This party is for all women.

By entering this party, you agree that you identify as a woman.

We reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you for clarification if there is a question with regard to your gender presentation.

We also reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you to leave, if we feel that you do not meet our attendance criteria, or if your presence is disruptive to the event.

As Winter sets in, some of us like to kick the heat up a notch--while others delight in the bracing bite of the cold.

What's your pleasure--sizzle, or shivers?

What's your mood--chill, or sultry?

Either way, SHE is always happy to oblige!

SHE Presents: Fire And Ice -- A Tribute To Extremes

Tis the season of the holiday rush! It is the time of year where we celebrate with family, friends, and loved ones. But with the celebration often comes the stress and the headaches of getting everything done and finding that perfect gift.

We here at the SHE Party would like you to encourage you to follow a very healthy course of action on the 17th of December. We suggest you blow it all off for an evening and come to SHE where you can leave all of that at the door!

At 8pm you have the option of joining us for the free social, a quiet time to just hang out and enjoy the company of other women with like minds. Of course, when 9pm rolls around and the party and the play begin there’s still nothing to really worry about. Well, not for the next five hours or so and we invite you come enjoy yourself.

Of course, you don’t have to worry about the RAW Side of SHE, it’ll begin at 9pm as well over the Raw Space.

Come join us and blow off everything else for a very evening of escape and pleasure.
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We welcome the women of the CSPC regardless of the gender marker on their photo identification card.*

SHE features:

• Areas for socializing and cuddling
• Equipment for BDSM
• Sex is allowed in the back room or the front space
• Moderate sound volume
• Fetish-wear friendly, but not required. You may dress for the theme or come as you are.
• Exclusive use of the RAW Space
• A plentiful spread of food - Bring some to share!

*18 and over - (Proof of age required)
*Open to All Women - (Government Issued Female ID NOT required)
*Open to CSPC Members and Invited Guests.

Free Social from 8 pm-9 pm

Open Play Party 9 pm to 2 am
Cost: $20 ($15 FOR MEMBERS WHO ARRIVE AND PAY BEFORE 10PM; Includes entry into The RAW Side of SHE and Fete Nuit if dressed appropriately)

* For more information, please see the FAQ at http://sheparty.org/faq or send an e-mail to she@sexpositiveculture.org.

SHE Attendance Policy
This party is for all women.
By entering this party, you agree that you identify as female.
We reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you for clarification if there is a question with regard to your gender presentation.
We also reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you to leave, if we feel that you do not meet our attendance criteria, or if your presence is disruptive to the event.

When July hits, we know we're in the summer months. The days are long and hot and the nights are not long enough! We here at SHE are thinking of you! Whatever you were wearing for the day, come to the party in it. Cut offs and tank top? Not problem! High powered pant suit? Go with it! Just a pair of leather chaps and not much else? We may be curious to know what your daytimes are like, but we're good with that too. The night is all about relaxing and sex, so don't worry about what to wear because by the end of the evening, we're hoping it all comes off anyway!

SHE features:

• A casual and comfortable atmosphere for all women
• Areas for socializing and cuddling
• Equipment for BDSM
• Sex is allowed in the back room or the front space
• Moderate sound volume
• Fetish-wear friendly, but not required
• Shared access to the RAW Space

Open to CSPC Members and Guests
18+, Woman Identified

Free Social from 8 pm-9 pm
Open Play Party 9 pm to 2 am

Cost: $20 ($15 if you arrive between 9PM and 10PM; includes entry into Fete Nuit if dressed appropriately)

* For more information, please see the FAQ at http://sheparty.org/faq or send an e-mail to she@sexpositiveculture.org.

SHE Attendance Policy:

• This party is for all women.
• By entering this party, you agree that you identify as female.
• We reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you for clarification if there is a question with regard to your gender presentation.
• We also reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you to leave, if we feel that you do not meet our attendance criteria, or if your presence is disruptive to the event.

While we know that SHE partygoers are quite attached to our humble little party, we also know that you can't always make SHE, or that you may want to expand your horizons by meeting up with similar-minded women outside of SHE. Or perhaps you're interested in conferences that mesh nicely with the SHE attendees' needs.

For that reason, there is now a section of our blog sidebar for Other Events SHE Endorses. These include other play parties, social gatherings, and conferences, and will be updated as we find more events you might want to check out. Plus, you might meet someone new and bring them to SHE some time...!

Feel free to contact us if you know of an event that should belong here!

We who organize and run the SHE parties have always been happy to hear our attendees commenting on the wonderful time they had, or how much they love the party in general. But we recently received what I consider to be the best testimonial I've yet seen for SHE:

As a visitor to Seattle who's never been to CPSC, SHE, or even Seattle itself, I wanted to say I had a great time at the party. I really enjoyed the socialising which I've not experienced at play parties elsewhere. As someone who knew almost no one there, it really made me feel much more comfortable about being there, going topless (I really was much too warm, honestly), and being noisy in a scene. ahem

That sums things up very nicely indeed! It hasn't been explicit to date, but the friendliness of our party is one of the reasons why SHE has been so successful. The woman who wrote the above is shy and had concerns that she wouldn't know anyone, let alone find someone to play with. Thanks to the atmosphere we've cultivated by being so social, we've made it easier for her--and many others!--to explore and embrace their sexuality, and that's a wonderful gift. We're honored to be able to provide this and hope you are eager to join us if you never have before!

(And yes, as a footnote, it was a bit warm last time. Not that we'd turn up the heat to encourage people to disrobe or anything like that.... ahem )

If you go into the woods today
You're in for a big surprise
If you go into the woods today
You won't believe your eyes!

Does it thrill you when your Mother Goose gets cooked? Have a bodice in need of ripping? Want to feel big teeth against your little red riding hood? Or do you just need to get your Alice on? Whatever your story, we've got a fable-ous evening planned!

SHE Presents: Twisted Fairy Tails
Friday, May 21, 2010
CSPC Annex

This May the SHE Team invites Puss-In-Boots, butch Hansels and femme Gretyls (and vice-versa!) and all wicked stepmothers to cavort with fey and imps, and even a dragon or two! Never mind the breadcrumbs, you'll want to become lost in our forest of delights! Got some gothy or Ren Faire or RPG costume you don't get to wear often? Let some fairy aire settle into those garbs and become part of the fantasy tonight!

PLUS: Join us early as our own delightful diva Beca demonstrates Midori's Rope Dance! In this rope dance the top uses rope and centrifugal force to corral, direct, spin and dance with their bottom. It's a wonderful way to amp up energy for rope work, to connect with your partner, to loosen a nervous bottom, and for general play! You'll not want to miss out!

And remember, SHE has no dress code, so if you just want to come as you are, relax, and play, you're always welcome!

SPECIAL OFFER FOR SEX 2.0 ATTENDEES
In town for Sex 2.0?
Want to check out SHE while you're here?
Not a CSPC member?
Not a problem!

On 5/21, SHE will be open to female-identified non-CSPC-members, in order to welcome guests in town for Sex 2.0.
You will be asked to fill out a guest form, and agree to our Attendance Policy (see below).

SHE features:

• A casual and comfortable atmosphere
• Areas for socializing and cuddling
• Equipment for BDSM
• Sex is allowed in the back room or the front space
• Moderate sound volume
• Fetish-wear friendly, but not required
• Shared access to the RAW Space

Open to CSPC Members and Guests
18+, Self-identified Women

Free Social from 8 pm-9 pm
Open Play Party 9 pm to 2 am

• For more information, please see the FAQ at http://sheparty.org/faq or send an e-mail to she@sexpositiveculture.org.

SHE Attendance Policy

• This party is for all women.
• By entering this party, you agree that you identify as female.
• We reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you for clarification if there is a question with regard to your gender presentation.
• We also reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you to leave, if we feel that you do not meet our attendance criteria, or if your presence is disruptive to the event.

We're going to be setting up a little photography area in the alcove of the Annex. I'll be there with my camera and strobes for people who are interested. My goal is for you to walk out the door with a CD of pictures.

Why are we doing this? Because, as we all know, straps love to be photographed. ;)