The holidays are upon us and there are parties to attend! “I need a new dress” you think to yourself. But, as you plan your shopping trip, you begin to hear a voice in your head. A voice calling you to the back of your closet. The voice of – IT. It’s been there for years, or maybe just a few days.

Begging to be worn again OR – put out of its misery.

The holidays can always be a little rough and they are upon us with their parties to attend. “I need a new dress,” you might think to yourself. So you plan your shopping trip. Need to go here to get this thing. Run to there to do that thing. In the midst of it all, you begin to hear a voice in your head. A voice calling you back home and to your closet.

The voice of...IT. It’s been there for years or perhaps only for a few days. Perhaps you bought it yourself, wore it to that special event, only to realize later its true nature. Perhaps it was foisted upon you by a “dear friend” or sorority sister in whose wedding you participated. Either way, it’s calling to you now. This is the dress that is begging to be worn again. Or put out of its misery.

Yes, your UGLY DRESS wants to DIE! And to fulfill that Death Wish, the kind ladies at SHE are here to help.

The SHE Party proudly presents to you...
Shred the Dress: Holiday Edition

Wear your ugly dress, holiday fashioned or not, to SHE on December 16th and a group of highly skilled, knife-wielding tops will cut it to shreds. As an added bonus, for the Holiday Edition ONLY, we are expanding the definition of “Ugly Dress” to include “Ugly Holiday Sweaters” as well.

This month there will be no social and the party starts when the doors open at 8pm in the Annex and in the Raw Space and the party will come to a close at 1am.

We welcome the women of the CSPC regardless of the gender marker on their photo identification card.*

SHE features:

• A casual and comfortable atmosphere
• Areas for socializing and cuddling
• Racks, cages, and other gear for BDSM play
• Sex rooms for privacy--but feel free to enjoy yourself anywhere in the Annex or RAW Space!
• Moderate sound volume
• Fetish-wear friendly, but not required. Come as you are, or dress up--your choice!
• Exclusive use of the RAW Space
• A plentiful spread of veggies, fruit, cheeses, and other snacks--bring some food to share if you wish!

Who can attend?

• Open to all women. Government issued female ID is NOT required.
• Open to CSPC members and their invited guests
• 18 and over. Proof of age is required for guests.

Open Play Party 8 pm to 1 am

Cost: $20 ($15 FOR MEMBERS WHO ARRIVE AND PAY BEFORE 9PM; Includes entry into The RAW Side of SHE and the Luv Shack)

* For more information, please visit http://sheparty.org/faq or send an e-mail to she@sexpositiveculture.org.

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SHE Attendance Policy

This party is for all women.
By entering this party, you agree that you identify as a woman.
We reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you for clarification if there is a question with regard to your gender presentation.
We also reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you to leave, if we feel that you do not meet our attendance criteria, or if your presence is disruptive to the event.

Be You. Be Proud. Express Yourself!

Come on down to the party on June 17 and Be Yourself.

In the spirit of community, this month's party will be open to the public. CSPC Membership is not required. *see event description for details

Whether you are new to the women's community, or well-experienced in the scene, SHE is there for you.

As a special treat, our very own MadGastronomer will be providing Violet Wand tastings or demos to anyone who is interested, starting at 9pm.

SHE is a play party for all women.

The Annex features lots of soft furniture, plenty of places to cuddle and socialize, and some equipment for bdsm play.

The RAW space is an edgier space with lots of equipment and very little furniture, perfect for rougher, wilder scenes.

Our dedicated crew strives to make you feel at home and serve your needs.

CSPC Members:
Cost is $20 ($15 before 9pm and includes entry into Luv Shack)

Non-Members:
Cost is $20 (no discount); Guests must be accompanied by a Member in order to attend Luv Shack.

The Annex will be open at 8pm, and the Raw space will be open at 9pm.

This month, the SHE party is open to the public. Attendees do not have to be members, nor do they need to be accompanied by a member. Spread the Word!

On Friday, May 20th, SHE presents The First Ever Singles Mixer At The SHE Party from 8pm to 10pm with play in the Annex from from 10pm – 2am

Don’t forget
The RAW Side of SHE
9pm – 2am
In the RAW Space
Where Anything Goes!

Tonight’s party is all about getting YOU hooked up with someone for the night. After that, it’s all up to you!

From 8pm – 10pm, in the Annex, we'll keep the lights up and the music down. We'll have fun and games that are all about getting you what you want!

Tasting Stations run by Bottoms!
Do you have a skill you'd like to show off?
Use your imagination! What skills can you offer to get a Top's attention?
Can you give a good shoulder rub? foot rub? Some other type of personal service?
Valet services? leather care? boot/shoe care?
Do you like to fetch/serve food for Tops?

If you'd like to offer your services as a bottom - please email lissa@sexpositiveculture.org with a description of your proposed station and your services.

We're sure to have a cuddle pile going throughout the evening, and we may even have a game of Twister, Musical Chairs, or some other silly ice breaker.

We will also have our very own version of the Sign-Off Game!

Goal: Collect autographs from women to complete the descriptions
Win: First 3 people to collect all Sign-Offs and show us your booklet get goodies from our goody basket!

Of course we will have yummy snacks, and the usual comfortable environment in the Annex, and the Raw space will open at 9pm for pleasure!

At 10pm, we'll clear the floor for an open play party, so that you can all get "better acquainted".

We welcome the women of the CSPC regardless of the gender marker on their photo identification card.*

SHE features:
• A casual and comfortable atmosphere
• Areas for socializing and cuddling
• Racks, cages, and other gear for BDSM play
• Sex rooms for privacy--but feel free to enjoy yourself anywhere in the Annex or RAW Space!
• Moderate sound volume
• Fetish-wear friendly, but not required. Come as you are, or dress up--your choice!
• A plentiful spread of veggies, fruit, cheeses, and other snacks--bring some food to share if you wish!
• The RAW Side of SHE – The Raw space opens up at 9pm for anything Rough and Wild. Anything goes, within the limits of the CSPC Rules.

*Who can attend?
• Open to all women. Government issued female ID is NOT required.
• Open to CSPC members and their invited guests
• 18 and over. Proof of age is required for guests.

*SHE Attendance Policy
• This party is for all women.
• By entering this party, you agree that you identify as a woman.
• We reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you for clarification if there is a question with regard to your gender presentation.
• We also reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you to leave, if we feel that you do not meet our attendance criteria, or if your presence is disruptive to the event.

Cost: $20 ($15 FOR MEMBERS BEFORE 10PM) Includes entry into The RAW Side of SHE and the Luv Shack

As Winter sets in, some of us like to kick the heat up a notch--while others delight in the bracing bite of the cold.

What's your pleasure--sizzle, or shivers?

What's your mood--chill, or sultry?

Either way, SHE is always happy to oblige!

SHE Presents: Fire And Ice -- A Tribute To Extremes

Tis the season of the holiday rush! It is the time of year where we celebrate with family, friends, and loved ones. But with the celebration often comes the stress and the headaches of getting everything done and finding that perfect gift.

We here at the SHE Party would like you to encourage you to follow a very healthy course of action on the 17th of December. We suggest you blow it all off for an evening and come to SHE where you can leave all of that at the door!

At 8pm you have the option of joining us for the free social, a quiet time to just hang out and enjoy the company of other women with like minds. Of course, when 9pm rolls around and the party and the play begin there’s still nothing to really worry about. Well, not for the next five hours or so and we invite you come enjoy yourself.

Of course, you don’t have to worry about the RAW Side of SHE, it’ll begin at 9pm as well over the Raw Space.

Come join us and blow off everything else for a very evening of escape and pleasure.
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We welcome the women of the CSPC regardless of the gender marker on their photo identification card.*

SHE features:

• Areas for socializing and cuddling
• Equipment for BDSM
• Sex is allowed in the back room or the front space
• Moderate sound volume
• Fetish-wear friendly, but not required. You may dress for the theme or come as you are.
• Exclusive use of the RAW Space
• A plentiful spread of food - Bring some to share!

*18 and over - (Proof of age required)
*Open to All Women - (Government Issued Female ID NOT required)
*Open to CSPC Members and Invited Guests.

Free Social from 8 pm-9 pm

Open Play Party 9 pm to 2 am
Cost: $20 ($15 FOR MEMBERS WHO ARRIVE AND PAY BEFORE 10PM; Includes entry into The RAW Side of SHE and Fete Nuit if dressed appropriately)

* For more information, please see the FAQ at http://sheparty.org/faq or send an e-mail to she@sexpositiveculture.org.

SHE Attendance Policy
This party is for all women.
By entering this party, you agree that you identify as female.
We reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you for clarification if there is a question with regard to your gender presentation.
We also reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you to leave, if we feel that you do not meet our attendance criteria, or if your presence is disruptive to the event.

For November, as a prelude to your Thanksgiving festivities, SHE presents a social event so simple and yet so sexy that you will find it hard not to attend!

SHE presents: Return of the Food Orgy

There is but one rule of a Food Orgy: You are not allowed to feed yourself.

Imagine a succulent, sensuous buffet of delicacies awaiting to tantalize your senses, all so very tempting. Yet you cannot put a single one in your mouth. What are you to do?

You can feed your date, and have her feed you.
You could slip into a servile frame of mind and begin feeding every willing Domme in attendance.
You could invite a willing submissive to sit at your feet and tantalize her with tidbits.
You might start a poly nosh circle, feeding each other in threes and fours and more!

How you get fed, and who you feed, is entirely up to you. And as a bonus--she might even let you lick her fingers clean!

Play party to follow.  Play will be encouraged both during and after the food festivities. As always, play can begin promptly at 9pm in the Raw Space.

We welcome the women of the CSPC regardless of the gender marker on their photo identification card.*

SHE features:

• A casual and comfortable atmosphere
• Areas for socializing and cuddling
• Equipment for BDSM
• Sex is allowed in the back room or the front space
• Moderate sound volume
• Fetish-wear friendly, but not required. You may dress for the theme or come as you are.
• Exclusive use of the RAW Space
• A plentiful spread of food - Bring some to share!

*18 and over - (Proof of age required)
*Open to All Women - (Government Issued Female ID NOT required)
*Open to CSPC Members and Invited Guests.

Free Social from 8 pm-9 pm

Open Play Party 9 pm to 2 am
Cost: $20 ($15 FOR MEMBERS WHO ARRIVE AND PAY BEFORE 10PM; Includes entry into The RAW Side of SHE and Fete Nuit if dressed appropriately)

* For more information, please see the FAQ at http://sheparty.org/faq or send an e-mail to she@sexpositiveculture.org.

SHE Attendance Policy
This party is for all women.
By entering this party, you agree that you identify as female.
We reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you for clarification if there is a question with regard to your gender presentation.
We also reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you to leave, if we feel that you do not meet our attendance criteria, or if your presence is disruptive to the event.

A bump, a grind, a tight fanny swing--these are a few of our favorite things!

SHE Presents: A Night at the Cabaret
Friday, September 17, 2010 -- CSPC Annex

This time around the SHE Team celebrates the joys of sensual disrobing! Come to our free social from 8-9 pm for a fun little workshop on how to make your own pasties! Have you ever wanted to feel the freedom of taking it all off? Have we got a deal for you then! Starting at 9, you have your chance at it. Take up to 3 minutes to show us what you have. You provide the music on CD, bring those clothes to come off, and we’ll provide the cat calls, the screams, and wolf whistles as you dazzle us! It doesn’t matter if you’re a femme, a butch, large or small, or some other kind of woman all together, we want you come strut for us and show us what it’s all about--tease by aching tease!

After all that is said and done, play will be had in the Annex and play can begin in the Raw Space at 9pm.

A bawdy, tawdry time is expected! Won’t you join us? We’ll show you ours if you show us yours.

We welcome the women of the CSPC regardless of the gender marker on their photo identification card.*

SHE features:

• A casual and comfortable atmosphere
• Areas for socializing and cuddling
• Equipment for BDSM
• Sex is allowed in the back room or the front space
• Moderate sound volume
• Fetish-wear friendly, but not required. You may dress for the theme or come as you are.
• Exclusive use of the RAW Space
• A plentiful spread of food - Bring some to share!

*18 and over - (Proof of age required)
*Open to All Women - (Government Issued Female ID NOT required)
*Open to CSPC Members and Invited Guests.

Free Social from 8 pm-9 pm

Open Play Party 9 pm to 2 am

Cost: $20 ($15 FOR MEMBERS WHO ARRIVE AND PAY BEFORE 10PM; Includes entry into The RAW Side of SHE and Fete Nuit if dressed appropriately)

* For more information, please see the FAQ at http://sheparty.org/faq or send an e-mail to she@sexpositiveculture.org.

SHE Attendance Policy
This party is for all women.
By entering this party, you agree that you identify as female.
We reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you for clarification if there is a question with regard to your gender presentation.
We also reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you to leave, if we feel that you do not meet our attendance criteria, or if your presence is disruptive to the event.

When July hits, we know we're in the summer months. The days are long and hot and the nights are not long enough! We here at SHE are thinking of you! Whatever you were wearing for the day, come to the party in it. Cut offs and tank top? Not problem! High powered pant suit? Go with it! Just a pair of leather chaps and not much else? We may be curious to know what your daytimes are like, but we're good with that too. The night is all about relaxing and sex, so don't worry about what to wear because by the end of the evening, we're hoping it all comes off anyway!

SHE features:

• A casual and comfortable atmosphere for all women
• Areas for socializing and cuddling
• Equipment for BDSM
• Sex is allowed in the back room or the front space
• Moderate sound volume
• Fetish-wear friendly, but not required
• Shared access to the RAW Space

Open to CSPC Members and Guests
18+, Woman Identified

Free Social from 8 pm-9 pm
Open Play Party 9 pm to 2 am

Cost: $20 ($15 if you arrive between 9PM and 10PM; includes entry into Fete Nuit if dressed appropriately)

* For more information, please see the FAQ at http://sheparty.org/faq or send an e-mail to she@sexpositiveculture.org.

SHE Attendance Policy:

• This party is for all women.
• By entering this party, you agree that you identify as female.
• We reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you for clarification if there is a question with regard to your gender presentation.
• We also reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you to leave, if we feel that you do not meet our attendance criteria, or if your presence is disruptive to the event.

If you go into the woods today
You're in for a big surprise
If you go into the woods today
You won't believe your eyes!

Does it thrill you when your Mother Goose gets cooked? Have a bodice in need of ripping? Want to feel big teeth against your little red riding hood? Or do you just need to get your Alice on? Whatever your story, we've got a fable-ous evening planned!

SHE Presents: Twisted Fairy Tails
Friday, May 21, 2010
CSPC Annex

This May the SHE Team invites Puss-In-Boots, butch Hansels and femme Gretyls (and vice-versa!) and all wicked stepmothers to cavort with fey and imps, and even a dragon or two! Never mind the breadcrumbs, you'll want to become lost in our forest of delights! Got some gothy or Ren Faire or RPG costume you don't get to wear often? Let some fairy aire settle into those garbs and become part of the fantasy tonight!

PLUS: Join us early as our own delightful diva Beca demonstrates Midori's Rope Dance! In this rope dance the top uses rope and centrifugal force to corral, direct, spin and dance with their bottom. It's a wonderful way to amp up energy for rope work, to connect with your partner, to loosen a nervous bottom, and for general play! You'll not want to miss out!

And remember, SHE has no dress code, so if you just want to come as you are, relax, and play, you're always welcome!

SPECIAL OFFER FOR SEX 2.0 ATTENDEES
In town for Sex 2.0?
Want to check out SHE while you're here?
Not a CSPC member?
Not a problem!

On 5/21, SHE will be open to female-identified non-CSPC-members, in order to welcome guests in town for Sex 2.0.
You will be asked to fill out a guest form, and agree to our Attendance Policy (see below).

SHE features:

• A casual and comfortable atmosphere
• Areas for socializing and cuddling
• Equipment for BDSM
• Sex is allowed in the back room or the front space
• Moderate sound volume
• Fetish-wear friendly, but not required
• Shared access to the RAW Space

Open to CSPC Members and Guests
18+, Self-identified Women

Free Social from 8 pm-9 pm
Open Play Party 9 pm to 2 am

• For more information, please see the FAQ at http://sheparty.org/faq or send an e-mail to she@sexpositiveculture.org.

SHE Attendance Policy

• This party is for all women.
• By entering this party, you agree that you identify as female.
• We reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you for clarification if there is a question with regard to your gender presentation.
• We also reserve the right to respectfully and politely ask you to leave, if we feel that you do not meet our attendance criteria, or if your presence is disruptive to the event.

We're going to be setting up a little photography area in the alcove of the Annex. I'll be there with my camera and strobes for people who are interested. My goal is for you to walk out the door with a CD of pictures.

Why are we doing this? Because, as we all know, straps love to be photographed. ;)